I came here, with the false thinking that all lesbian women are not only understanding of homosexuals, but of all walks of sexuals too. Me not exactly being a textbook homosexual, was hoping
xxx wants friendship I could come in here and be more understood by this group than any other group on here. the way you lumped all lesbians into a single collective. No, really. And your bigotry is delightfully self-centered. You're not assexual; you've already asserted that you like sex with women, but have no emotional attachment to them. So you can leave the assexual red herring outside the door. You need therapy because you're so fucked up you're asking strangers how to be and think rather than asking yourself what you need and the kind of person you want to be. You like sex with women, but aren't emotionally drawn to them, and you are emotionally drawn to men but you want a gold seal of approval from strangers to identify as a lesbian? And help finding a who fuck you even though you don't particularly enjoy sex with men, but crave emotional bonds with them? Do you the problem with that? The basic absence of logic? And if it's not a problem than wtf did you post? What exactly did you want this group of strangers to provide? I note, by the way, that your language about yourself and about your relationships is right in the center of the Venn diagram for someone with attachment issues, right down to the emphasis on quid-pro-quo. Do yourself a favor. Tomorrow your local LGBT center, even if it's in the next state over, and ask for a list of queer friendly therapists, because if you're asking strangers to solve your issues and hand you a nice little package, you need help sooner rather than later because your basic decision making and logic are impaired.