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the relationship's back. I don't know how to deal anymore and need advice. DH and I Divorced senior searching casual encounter women wanting men have had a start to our marriage and now it seems like every little fight reminds me of every other fight we've had. For example, yesterday we had a good day. We spent most of the day doing our own thing, but then settled on the couch together for conversation and cuddling. At 9:00, I went to take a bath and start getting ready for bed. At 10:00, I noticed DH asleep on the couch, so I went to wake him and asked him if he was going to come to bed with me. He snapped my head off. I said, "Look, I just asked a simple question, there's no need to be rude." I took into account that he had been sleeping, so I was going to let it go and walk away. Then he just went off on me, not quite yelling, but his tone was just nasty. And so in my head I thinking about all the times "the switch" has been flicked and he goes from being sweet to a jerk. I don't understand it, and what I don't understand the most is how surprised, hurt and annoyed I get when I should know that this is the way he is. He's gotten so much better after we've gone to couples counseling, so he's not a jerk nearly as much, but when he is, it brings up all the old hurts. I know we're not supposed to bring up or rehash all the "old" fights in the current ones, but how do you get over them really?