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Can the two of you set a specific time during the evening where you have together time and apart time? I'm sorry, but your relationship really does need some boundaries, nagging or not. Ask him: Are you happy? What specifiy are you happy about? Are there things in our marriage or life that you would change? Look, it sounds to me like you're feeling neglected and this other guy gives you a little spark/thrill when you're at a weak time in your marriage. You're feeling vulnerable and unattractive to your life mate and this is probably driving your need for acceptance from another. That is a dangerous flame to play with. The only thing you can really do here is limit contact with the other while you work on your marriage. Your husband has to work with you, so it's important you express how important this work is. Consider seeing a professional either alone or as a couple. You need a plan. That plan can start with a simple nonconfrontational conversation about how you feel and what changes you would like, as well as him sharing those same things with you. You open the door to communication by opening your mouth.

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Okay, I *get* your post. 1) Do you work outside the home? 2) I was mommy/maid too, and it just WEARS you down, who wants sex when you are dead tired resent the factb(him) that you get no help with housework, oil change, care, etc? 3) If you work outside the home at least 32 or more hours per week, job duties should be divided some how. I went thru EXACTLY what you are going thru when I was married. 4) If you don't work outside the home, then he still should pick up some of the manly duties. If you work 20-25 hours/week, I could still how you would be exhausted. 5) If you are a SAMH, then time management has got to be your friend so you are not so depleated at the end of the day. <br 6) My friend and I were just discussing this, as her ex my ex were alike in that: they just didn't *-* what needed to be done in a home! They just didn't have that frame of reference. It really sounds as if your spouse perhaps just doesn't all the job duties that need to get done. He be one of *those*. Some guys just don't it, a lot of guys do, and those women are lucky! Jackpot! I just got a dud.