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I want to thank everyone who replied to my post down below. It seemed to be quite a ways down so I thought I would respond with a new one. The original https:// To answer a few questions though. There is nothing wrong with me genetiy that would make me not want to have. I have known for quite a while I don’t want. It is a personal decision, and I a few others also felt the same way. It isn’t that I’m selfish I just don’t want to have, and be responsible for someone for the next 18 years at minimum. I didn’t just come to this decision overnight. I actually put a lot of thought into it and made the decision I feel is best. The whole, minivan, dogs, cats, and white picket fence isn’t my thing. Like someone stated it is good that someone realizes they aren’t parent material (which I have) and doesn’t have a bunch of they don’t truly want. Also I do care about telling them which if why I made this post. I have never had a physical relationship with someone without them knowing beforehand I don’t want. I usually tell them within 1 month of dating them. I guess I take some peoples advice and just tell them sooner. I don’t like not being honest with people, and I don’t want to waste their time or mine if they want someday. I guess what made me make the post originally was I wanted to get other peoples opinions on when they would like to be told the person they are about to date doesn’t want. I seem to be having a hard time finding someone that feels the same way. I know it is a deal breaker for which is why I’m going to do it sooner from now. Also to the one poster who said I I change my mind. I that was meant to be taken a joke. Some people are meant to have, and some aren’t. It is my life, and I need to do what I feel is best for me. I have told a few people that are close to me I don’t want, and they respect that. I have even met people who have, and wish they didn’t have them. Tweet