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Tweet a lot lol That's the reason just coffee is a good idea, if there isn't any click you haven't invested anything. It sounds like you might get a little emotionally invested at the idea of a Maryland wife swapping. Horny Women Personals Ads click and you end up disappointed. What about treating it (mentally) more like a business transaction? It really is a game. The idea of locking eyes with your soulmate across the room is not really a realistic expectation. Think of putting women in a room, then going through your list. I have, problem? And 20 walk out. I work for myself, problem? And 15 walk out. I have 11 cats, problem? Another 10 walk out. By the time you get down to the 15 women who haven't walked out, chances are 10 still have something you didn't think of that just keeps you from clicking. That would be the easy way, except you have to do it one at a time. Remember I said my therapist use to give me goals? Because he said if I kept at it, kept the running eventually I would get better at spotting the right kind of person. The quality of my choices would increase after the first hundred or so. Maybe somewhere before one would stick :) I ran a personal ad a couple years ago. There was the guy who just moved here, looking to buy a condo and basing his decision on the proximity to bars. Nothing wrong with that except that's not my kind of thing. There was the guy who has never been to, I'm not interested in that kind of radical. And of course the one who had never heard of whitening toothpaste, that one didn't get far. And the one who was exactly like my father, that was weird lol. They just didn't click. Did I really think that out of the thousands of men in my target demographic I was going to find the of my life out of a sampling from ? No. Would it have been nice to meet someone that I could have at least a light relationship with? Yes. But trying a half dozen times was really just a half-hearted effort.