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This is several months ago now but let me share the same words I gave her. He'll be fine, it'll take time and he'll always you and that's okay. It's far more cruel to keep him around when you know that you don't him. He deserves better and so do you I mean this as not better than one another but better for one's self. If you two were together for some time like we were then you'll have a friendship that you wish to preserve, let it be the friendship always be there in the future. Its better this now, than fighting your way through more hurt feelings. don't guilt yourself into a whole because you know he probably wants what's best for you even if its not him. Honor the memory of the relationship you guys shared by knowing that you both did your best and that now you both need to do your best again, but for yourselves and on your own. don't tarnish what have been perfect in every other sense. Its alright for things to end, its a natural pacing of things that aren't fully compatible, like gravity and a body orbiting it, eventually it crash or it leave. He'll thank you in the end. It's hard to watch him while he's down because you probably want to help him and take care of him, but you're now the thorny stalk of what was all roses. Accept it and move on, for his sake and yours. He'll be happy for you, it even make it easier for him. Men are logical thinkers even if they muddled by the heart. If he sees a finite thing like you dating again, he'll closure no matter how tainted it be, but in the end he'll reason it through. When the dust settles, we'll all be that much better off. So just to summarize, leave him alone, don't look back, stay strong, the best thing you can do is not look back. Help him by not looking back. I that helps a bit. :)