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Some of us here have ties to the Evangelical community, whether because we ourselves were part of it or because we are dating people who are/were part of it. So the description you have given is theoretical, insofar as it is not concretely tied to any specific observation you have made of individual people on here. All the observations that have been put forward about you have, thus far, been specific and tailored to your own personal actions. They are conclusions based on concrete, observable behaviors. Now, those conclusions or not be correct, but they are not being pulled out of thin air and they are based on empirical evidence your behavior. If you stopped believing the world was out to get you and stopped reacting to everything like a giant, quivering victim-wound (a conclusion that I am basing on your excessive focus on victimization; us vs. them language; dwelling on sadness, pain, sickness, and injury; and the fragility of identity/authenticity and the pain caused by misrecognition therein), your interactions would be far less paranoid and go much more smoothly. Every time a person addressed you or looked at you, you would not fall to pieces. up, turtle. There is clearly strength in you, but you seem hellbent on denying it for whatever reason.

No need to get jealousy involved. I have only been the third, but the last thing I want is to cause friction between you two. Why does your wife want a 3rd? Something special for you or So, why did you think buying her a vibrator was a good idea? I'm with, at least as far as "work on communication" goes. Perhaps she hates vibrators. Perhaps she honestly doesn't enjoy teens search sex masturbation. There're people for whom either of those is true, why not her? Why not talk to her, instead of giving her a device that basiy says, 'Hi -I want you to off with this, okay?' xxx wants friendship something special for her? If it is for her, let her tell you want she wants to, if it is for her, you let her lead, if they kiss, you can touch them both gently, but don't "horn in" let her bring you in, let her "introduce" you It sounds like your wife and you have fairly equal (but seperate), outside the sweet adult want nsa marriage relationships. You both have a set of friends you feel comfortable with. Since you both have strong platonic relationships with other people, you both are ok with the other's relationship. Where I the 'problem' is where only one of the partners has these platonic relationship, and the other side feels neglected (or worse). Add in an unfaithful twist (current or past partner), and you have problems. The 'other end' of the spectrum works too. Both my wife and I are 'homebodies', and not very social, so we don't go out with friends a who lot. And I don't think either one of us has ever stayed at a friend's house sense I have met her.

I've read the list you provided instances where your gf got jealous. When I interact Lady wants real sex NC Stokesdale 27357 with someone that has an upset or a problem, I ask them about two things in particular: what is their perception of the problem and, what are their strategies and solutions to resolve the problem. From what you describe, she perceives that she has a problem with jealousy. Her strategy to resolve her problem involves you making changes in your behaviour so that she doesn't feel emotions that makes her uncomfortable. The fact that she wants you to made adjustments to accomidate her distress reflects an immaturity and a lack of understanding on her part. Her disposition reflects a poor indicator for future growth development. At a minimum, she isn't motivated to address her own needs, she'd rather others do that for her. I predict your gf have a difficult road ahead if she expects (or demands or requests) others to make adjustments in order to accomidate her distress. Geez, that's what we do for very we make accomidations for them because they aren't yet able to understand, adjust and self correct on their own. But by the time a enters first grade, their society (teachers, principals, parents and fellow students) expects them to learn not only complex social rules but also to conduct themselves with a modicum of understanding, inner awareness and self correction. This doesn't start when they're teens. It starts in kindergarten. Remember 'The Rule' (Do onto others .)? The is an excellent example of how we ask to develop empathy, inner awareness and to adjust their behaviour. My guess is something happened that interrupted her early social development. Her primary care provider(s) probably was emotionally immature and did the same thing wanted others to accomidate for her emotional needs and she never took personal responsibility. It not have even occurred as an option for her. In general, the world doesn't make accomidations for our emotional handicaps and distresses. We pay a hefty price for handicaps in friendships, social acquaintences, significant others, jobs, promotions, etc. Just curious, what do you in the future with her? Have you considered what it'll be like if you have with her?

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